The Three Steps to Making Any College Girl Your Girlfriend
When I began talking with college girls, I used to say things I thought they wanted to hear. I never really knew what I was doing. Like you, I had a vague idea in my head of what I thought I should say and do. Buy flowers, take girls on expensive dates, wait three dates before a kiss. Take a moment and ask yourself…where do these “rules” come from and are they really helping you date the women you want?
You and I know you’re a great guy, but how can you communicate that to her? How can you communicate your unique personality in the way you dress, move, talk about yourself and your goals, and in the way you decorate your room.
If you’re not sure, don’t worry. The College Guide to Dating contains the answers.
So now… it’s time to tell you the three steps that it took me years to learn and you’re learning for free. What are the three steps that, if you take a girl through, will connect you with her and make her go crazy for you?
Here they are!
Step #1: You’ve got to give a girl a reason to like you. You don’t spend time with people who you don’t like. When someone is nasty to you, ignores you, has nothing interesting to say, is arrogant… you don’t like them and you don’t talk to them.
So you’re probably wondering, what do girls like? I’ll tell you a secret…It’s not what you think. You don’t have to come from money, know celebrities, have the best car on campus, be the quarterback, or president of a fraternity. It’s not about who you are in title. It’s about what you say and what you do.
It took me years to figure out the right things to do and to say. In the College Guide, you’ll learn to communicate positive and attractive characteristics in a natural way. By following my tips, you’ll communicate that you are a GREAT catch and she will be LUCKY to date you.
Step #2: A girl needs to feel like she is winning you over. You know how sometimes after talking to a girl for 30 seconds you start telling her about all the things that make her great and beautiful? You’ve probably done this many times. Maybe it’s because you think this is what she wants to hear or because you don’t know what else to talk about. Well…this is TOTALLY wrong. When you’re complimenting her, she’s not winning you over, you’re trying to win her over! You’ll never date a girl if she doesn’t feel like she is winning you over. In my college dating guide, you will learn how to get a girl chasing you. By the end of the conversation, she will be telling you about what she can do to please you! Within minutes, you can have them giving you all sorts of reason why you should like them.
How many times has a girl started telling you about all the things that make her great? Probably not too often. I don’t think it ever happened to me until I learned how get them to do it. So don’t blame yourself because it’s not your fault if it hasn’t happened. As you become more successful with women, you’ll notice just how important it is to get her chasing you.
Step #3: You have to bond with the girl. Think about this… she likes you. Maybe she’s spent 20 minutes talking to you in the cafeteria AFTER you finished eating or maybe she sat next to you on the bus to campus. She liked you enough to tell you things about herself, and when you didn’t act freaked out by her thoughts, she began to feel comfortable with you. Now, you guys need to bond.
This is the MOST IMPORTANT part of your time with a girl, and this is where guys in college blow it again and again. You only have one shot at this. You can’t hit restart. If you don’t get it right the first time, you will lose her forever. If she’s the girl of your dreams, you want to be ready for this moment. Have you ever had a really good time with a girl, call her the next day, and she ignores you? You call her again, and she ignores you again. Again, and again. It’s happened to me and it’s happened to every other guy on the planet. It’s upseting and confusing. 95% of the time, the reason she is ignoring you is simple - you didn’t BOND With her. She didn’t feel like you guys had a deep connection.
The College Guide to Dating will teach you how to create a deep connection. She WILL BE returning your phone calls in RECORD time. Don’t be suprised if she calls you before you call her. Next time you’re alone with a girl, instead of fumbling for words, you’ll bring her into your reality. It’s all in the book!
I’m a good looking guy and sing in a band that everyone at school knows. I meet girls on campus all the time because they recognize me. I always got lots of phone numbers. But that’s just that it, that’s all I got. For reasons I could never figure out, I would totally lose girls once we spent some time with each other, usually after an hour or two. I eventually stopped calling girls at all until my drummer (who had the same problem), recommended Gatsby’s College Guide to Dating. I had to read it. Good thing I did. Now I can connect with any girl. - Richie, USC
Richie got numbers but didn’t know how to take things to the next level. He “lost” the girls and couldn’t get them to return his phone calls. Richie didn’t BOND. No BOND = No Connection = Girls Won’t Call You Back. Richie learned how to bond using the steps in my college dating guide. I met up with him at USC not too long ago, and he’s got the most beautiful girlfriend now who loves him. She follows him everywhere and you can have hot college girls following you everywhere too.
If you know how to bond with a girl, you can sleep with her on the first day you meet (if this is what you want). This is what I expose in The College Guide to Dating. So get the book and stop trying to figure it out on your own.
This is the type of knowledge that other companies charge men $3,000 or more to learn. They make you sit in a windowless room and get lectured at for three days. Other sketchy companies sell entire sets of books for $500 dollars and more. Do you really have time to read a library and then go out and practice all that stuff?
You know what’s worse? NONE of these companies have written a guide for you — the college student. Their stuff is for older men.
So forget spending thousands of dollars. Forget spending hundreds of dollars. Hell…forget spending $50. You can buy the College Guide to Dating for virtually nothing compared to the other options.
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People appreciate what they work for more than if it just lands in their lap. I notice that when I pay for a book I read it more than if I borrow the book from a friend. It’s the same with girls, if they chase you then they feel like they are “paying” for you in a way and will appreciate you more and stick with you longer
Well Put. If a girl is “paying” for your attention by telling you about her best qualities, what makes her different from other girls, by buying you drinks, or by making you dinner, she will appreciate you more once you let her have you.
There are a ton of things about me I think are great and that girls will like. I just feel like I don’t talk to girls for long enough to tell them everything. Any suggestions?
The way we communicate attractive characteristics is through stories. We use embedded statements within the stories that communicate the “things that girls will like.” For example, you might say:
“I was playing a show downtown when this huge fight broke out backstage. Apparently this girl really wanted to see our band and punched the bouncer in the balls. I never found out who it was. A few weeks later, I started dating a girl and told her the story. Turns out it was her!”
So this story is pretty funny, short, and has a ton of attractive qualities. It communicates subtly that you are in a band, that your band is a success (ppl come to your show and try to get backstage), and that other girls like you. All in 4 sentences. You don’t need that much time to communicate positive qualities. I teach you more about stories and how to use them to their fullest potential in the book.
That makes sense. I never got a girl to chase me. I was always chasing her. The funny thing is that i’m a psychology major and I KNOW THAT YOU WANT WHAT YOU CAN’T GET. I just never applied this to girls!! The pieces fit.
Makes sense…
But I’m pretty sure I do this all, most of the time.
And I get girls telling me they’re only interested in being my friend.
That they love me “as a brother”.
*shrugs*
Matty,
Ending up in the “friend” zone is one of the most common issues that guys face. Ending up in the friend zone IS THE GUY’s fault. Any guy who does not generate attraction will be seen as a brother. You’ll generate attraction through 1) Teases, 2) Disqualifying Her, 3) High Value Stories, 4) Verbal Sexual Escalation
I go into the above four in detail in the book. I also go into the psychology behind them. For now, here are examples:
1) Teases - “You’re sooo cute, you totally remind me of my niece. She’s turning 4 next month.”
2) Disqualifying her - “You and I are wayyy too similar. We would never get along. It would be like dating myself, and that’s just not much fun.”
3) High Value Stories - These stories need to demonstrate attractive qualities about yourself. Among others, you need to show her that you have had other girlfriends, are comfortable around women, and are willing to walkaway if she doesn’t meet your standars.
4) Verbal Escalation - “You better behave or i’m going to put you over my knee and spank you!”
The combination of these four will prevent you from ending up in the friend zone. Try it with the next girl you talk to
-Gatsby
Hey everyone, greetings from Belgium. This is a nice blog. I’m wondering if you have any advice about staying out of the friend zone with women? I’m really tired of girls telling me they just want to be friends. Perhaps I’m being too nice?
Colton,
Thanks for the comment. Read the post “The 3 Biggest Mistakes Men Make” and it will give you three big reasons guys end up in the friend zone. I’m about to board a plane to Cali but will get reply to this comment after I land
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